Cultivating Creative Insights

Ellie Di of The Headologist asked if I’d write about cultivating creativity and how the brain is involved. As the posting schedule is shifting over at her blog, you can find the result below!

Creative thinking is a tricky thing to define. Some call it a skill; one that you either have or you don’t. Some say it requires inspiration, while others say it can be cultivated and “learnt”.

When I looked at creativity as a student, Einstein was viewed as a creative scientist, Leonardo da Vinci was seen to be a creative artist and composers like Mozart had their own version of creativity.

However, the definition is still hazy around the edges. Is creative art the same as creative science or even “innovative problem-solving“? Are engineers and mathematicians creative too? Maybe just some of them?


What might the difference be between the Mona Lisa and the Theory of Relativity? Would you call one more creative than the other?

Despite these differences, two common aspects of defining a creative thought are usefulness / purpose (aesthetic beauty counts) and novelty (hence it being creative or innovative, not just “normal”).

These ideas then follow four key processes:

~       Preparation – where we search for inspiration or gaze at the empty page

~       Incubation – letting the thoughts settle on the page or in our minds

~       Inspiration – finding their power, their wording, the context

~       Verification – trying them out, settling them into their new home


The Process

The scientific view of creativity and creative thinking seems to have a short-fall in the literature. However, the explanations of a movement practise called Shivanata, which provides creative thoughts, can give us a peek at the neuronal systems which support this event.

Essentially, our brain is a bunch of wires which connect all areas to nearly all the other areas. However, the wires are not all linked to each other directly; but via many connections (i.e. A-B-C-D connects A-D, but there are no wires from A to C or A to D directly).

In practices which utilise a mixture of skills, our brains can actually create these short-cuts and join areas which previously didn’t communicate at all, or only slowly (via fifteen little paths). This is where the “epiphanies” or new, creative ideas stem from: New or improved communication between parts of the brain that didn’t previous chat.


Connecting the Dots

Each time you act, neurons fire along the wires in your brain, and that path gets strengthened. For example, if you were to cross a field, you may find it slow-going. You trip over the molehills while falling down the surprise ditch and weave around the dog excrement and broken glass. It takes effort and time to watch out for danger and keep in line with your destination – a tiny gap in the fence at the other end which takes you onto the pavement.

After walking the route 5 days a week, for 2 years; the grass is flattened where you walk; the molehills are squashed down and you automatically hop over the ditch without even thinking. It takes you less time and energy to get across the field than it did before.

In your brain, there are little pulses of energy which travel down wires. In between two wires; there are ditches. If they use the same route enough; the neurotransmitter is increased; creating a bridge at the ditch so you save time; not even having to jump over it.


Want some creativity to flow your way?

1. Do things together

The best way to connect your brain is to learn new things; or do things differently. Mix these up with something you find easy or is automated to draw on an already-existent connection.

So for me, brushing my teeth is an automated process. I don’t have to think about how to hold the brush or which tooth to brush next; it just happens. So, I can change the hand I hold the brush with to start changing my neurons. My balance is mediocre, so maybe I’ll stand on one leg throughout brushing my teeth too.  If that’s not your thing, what about re-learning the second language you took in school? Stick up a list of Irish verbs on the wall; and read them while brushing your teeth. (I did this every day for a year… “Go n-ithe an cat thú is go n-ithe an diabhal an cat!” is a useful phrase.)


2. Mix it up

You want to mix the areas of the brain up; using a bit from each. So we have spatial, verbal, numerate, physical movement and visualisation/planning which all have there own areas.

This is why the above example uses movement (brushing teeth), spatial or balance (where my leg is in space), and verbal (second language learning), which will likely use visualisation if you visualise the action / object vividly.


3. Short but Strong

Do these mixed-up-items often, intensely, but for short bursts. And rest a lot between them. I brush my teeth 2 – 3 times a day, for 3 – 4 minutes each time.  That’s enough for a big change, and is more efficient (and less time-consuming) than spending two hours on one day each week doing it.


4. Keep changing it

Once it becomes habit, switch it up! Keep that brain learning new routes! Move onto algebra equations and tap-dance or hold one arm out while brushing your teeth. Or waiting for the kettle to boil. Put 100 new Italian nouns up to learn on the wall by your bed.


Your Thoughts

How do you find your creativity?
How would you define creativity and insights?
What insights would you like to have?

Interested in gaining some creative insights for yourself?
Head over to the Shivanata page to learn more.

– Rose –

 

As phoenix rises from ashes into flame, the alchemist turns lead to gold.

Are you feeling heavy, dull and in need of a smith? Let me help you to shine up and set you alight with your passion again.

The Alchemy Forge is open and fired up for business!

 

The Role of Kindness in Mental Health

As part of my role with Right Here in Brighton and Hove, I co-facilitate six-week courses in Anger Management for people aged 16-25.

Last week, I came out of the building where we hold these sessions, and as I walked up the road, I smiled at a homeless man. I wasn’t expecting him to speak.

“Can I ask a favour?”

“Actually I-” I found myself about to say I was in a hurry. But I wasn’t. So I began my answer again. “What can I do?”

“Could you watch my dog while I pop into that shop to get some dog food?”

“Sure.” I smiled and stepped under the scaffolding to crouch beside his dog, who was clearly used to being left with strangers.

He took some money off his guitar case and left. I though a lot about the stereotypes I have around talking to strangers. It cost me nothing, not more than a minute of my time, to give this dog food and the man a moment to stretch his legs. I’m a cat person, so I just crouched beside the chocolate Labrador, talking gently as it looked around for its missing owner. When the man returned, I smiled and said it was no problem.

I walked off; although something in me found that uncomfortable. I had no money with me. I had smiled, had given him a moment to walk around, to care for his pet…

And yet I felt a tug as I walked away.

 

This Isn’t Right.


Acts of Kindness

In the western world, I feel that we’re so busy being competitive; rushing to reach the next high that we avoid anything which may distract us from that. I hope that the man manages to get a different person each day to watch his dog for 60 seconds – to show that he is human, that he cares for his animal, and that he deserves as much time from another human being as anyone else.

Mostly though, I support his action of showing each human being who walks down West Street that it really costs them nothing to be kind. Even if neither party is aware of that lesson; it’s a side-effect of his request.

May 21st marks the beginning of Mental Health Awareness Week; and this year’s theme is “carrying out acts of kindness for strangers”. Helping others makes us feel good – so why not help more people?

As I run a meditation society on campus, this instantly reminded me of my favourite meditation. The practice is called “metta bahvana” which means loving-kindness, or compassion. In the meditation, you bring up feelings of compassion and direct them at yourself, your friend, a neutral person and someone you find difficult – before spreading that feeling over every being on the planet.

It’s my favourite meditation: connecting me with other humans who are experiencing everything that I also experience. That man is anxious about his family. That lady has pain in her lower back. That child is upset over the recent death of the family pet.

We all experience suffering and we can all show kindness. So why not begin now?

If you’re afraid it will backfire; you have an explanation. If you get a weird, suspicious look; explain that it is act of kindness week and smile.

We can all find a moment to be kind, and doing good does us good.


Simple Practises

Need some ideas? Take a look at these; see if any resonate with you:

1)      Try out metta bahvana meditation. It will take less than 10 minutes.

2)      Smile at everyone

3)      Say hello, have a good day/trip, please and thank you.

4)      Pick some flowers from the roadside and give them to people you don’t know that well (take them into the office, maybe).

5)      Compliment someone, sincerely.

6)      Smile at a busker. Explain that you have no money but offer to give them a few minutes of your listening/advice-giving time. Converse, smile and connect.

7)      Let someone have your seat on public transport – irrespective of whether they look like they need it.

8)      If someone is running for your bus, ask the driver to wait.

9)      Make a card for your housemate/colleague/friend using plain paper and a couple of pencils. Give it to them “just to make them smile”.

10)  Ask how someone is and really listen to their answer.

11)  Offer to hold or carry something for someone who is struggling but travelling the same direction as you. Or just open doors for them.

12)  Become an organ donor or give blood. (See this video for one example of how this kindness can really change people’s lives)

For other ideas, head to The Random Acts of Kindness Foundation.


Your Thoughts

Got any ideas to share? Want to share your own experiences with the meditation, being kind or receiving kindness? Leave a comment below and let us know!

What are your thoughts on kindness – are we kind enough? Are we afraid to be kind?

 

– Rose –

Finding Balance: Redefinition and Conditioning

I am in a constant state of redefinition. I came out of a house as an angry, verbally aggressive, closed-minded, negative, aversive person who took everything personally and was terrified of being wrong.

I still struggle with anger, anxiety and fear. I still struggle to be wrong, and I can still be very strong minded about certain views. The difference is that those views are now relatively well-researched from both sides.

 

Transitions

I came to university and met people who didn’t use fear and aggression to make others submissive to them. I discovered the people I grew up around are not right 100% of the time. I found out that being wrong did not get me hit, yelled at, or threatened.

During April, I spent three weeks back in my hometown. As the final week rolled around, I noticed the highly judgemental, defensive and quite angry comments whirring round my head again; conditioning I thought I’d broken free of, had been triggered.

When I returned here to Brighton, I feel safer amidst my supportive systems. Co-facilitating anger management courses keeps my own emotions under watch, working in the hospital keeps my life in perspective and my friends here continually give me options to meet them.

 

Conditioning Re-Arises

Three weeks back, however, I made myself sick with anxiety. I had mini-panic attacks for three days without an obvious trigger. I felt sick, experienced vertigo for the first time in my life, and struggled to process sensory information.

I had a week full of exciting, wonderful experiences lined up, and I had to miss half of them. I took my first ever day off sick for mental health reasons. And beneath my reluctance, I found guilt, judgement and stigma.

These underlying feelings were so persuasive, I had to really emphasise the vertigo – the nausea and dizziness, as physical symptoms, in order to admit that I was unwell.

 

Job Roles and Patterns

I grew up in a space where mental health was negative, and using it as a reason was termed an “excuse”. Then I came to Brighton, and found that I agreed with the science, the case studies I saw and the reflections upon my previous mental health experiences – there was something concrete in mental health, and it had a right to be valued.

In Brighton, I work with those who have or have experienced ill mental health. I do not think they are weak or bad, and my time is spent actively encouraging people to value mental health as a part of physical health.

Listening to my inner feelings, I really do believe that mental health issues are as valid, if not more valid, than physical – as they are present in both and can cause physical symptoms. Yet as I was given two days off work; from jobs in mental health, I found the stigma rising.

 

The quiet voice began as a “you’re being silly, letting them down for no reason”, and by the end of the day, it had turned into a raging anger; a guilty voice of injustice. In my weaker state; deprived of food and sleep, my conditioning arose and I couldn’t access the tools to redefine it.

 

The Next Step

Now, however, I am able to reach those tools. I’ve been questioning the language I use, and how I react to what others say and do. I’ve reflected on this stigma, and I’m taking a while to unpick where I’ve learned those conditioned reactions from.

This is the space where I can also utilise the tools for dealing with arising conditions; setting up safe spaces within my days. This week, I’m slotting in a shopping trip, a night at the pub and a visit to my friend. I have work to do, but I’m deliberately providing myself with supportive systems, while I internally deal with this old pattern.

And if I encounter it again, I hope that I’ll be able to reach out to the tools I have available to me.

 

Questions for Thought

What do you find when you come out of your conditioned state?

How do you deal with stigma and old views you no longer believe in?

What is your next step, following a trigger of old conditioning?

 

– Rose –

 

As phoenix rises from ashes into flame, the alchemist turns lead to gold.

Are you feeling heavy, dull and in need of a smith? Let me help you to shine up and set you alight with your passion again.


The Alchemy Forge will be opening later this week, so keep an eye out!

 

Shivanata: The Sparkling Truth

I’ve been practising shivanata since April 2010. I’ve been teaching since May 2011. For various reasons, I ended up taking about 4 months off from the practise.

A month or two back, I suddenly got back into the swing, and within 48 hours, was flooded by ideas.

My student journey has a foreseeable end. I’d hit a block in my path.

I was looking for job options in every crevice; from moving 100 miles away, living back at home, and taking other education to suddenly upping my income here at my blog.


Projects

I’ve had a few projects in the pipe-line for the past six months; all of which I’ve begun, yet need a large amount of work.

As I picked up my shivanata practise, I was saddened to notice the lack of skill I now had with the low levels. I know in my head that it’s good; that this shows my brain has been re-wired since I learnt those early steps, yet my heart was seeing the failure underneath.


The Epiphanies

One night back in April, I couldn’t sleep. I went to bed at 11pm, and was still staring at the ceiling at 3am. I’d given up at 1:30 and watched a DVD on my ipod for an hour; then gone back to ceiling gazing.

My mind was full of buzzing, but not real thoughts. I couldn’t trace any worries and when I checked in with my body; I was tired.

~

The next morning I sat up to my laptop, bleary-eyed and yawning. I began to plan the guest post that I later shared over at Medicinal Marzipan. Between segments, I surfed the internet in my usual manner, and barely noticed the words I was reading on the various websites I came across.

* bing *

“Alchemist”.

Holy Carp, Batman.

I work with Phoenixes (phoeni?), transforming ashes to flame. I’m a Pagan by spirituality, and a melder of minds. If that’s not alchemy, I don’t know what is.

Once more, I was bowled over with ideas… I found a new set of metaphors to deal with the branding of things I’d had in the pipeline for months. There are two products I’m close to launching, a better way of wording a third venture I’m tentatively taking, and three new ideas which are all very do-able.

In a way, 45-minutes of level 1 shivanata, spread across 12 minutes a day has re-branded something that I hadn’t realised wasn’t working for me.

I knew I was lost, but didn’t know which bits had got me into the muddle. Now I know how I got here, where I’ve come from, where to go and how I’ll be getting there.

Not bad for 12 minutes a day and a little starter kit I bought to help me write a dissertation two years ago (which it also did amazingly).

This weekend, I’ll be attending the Brainpop Shiva Nata Workshop in London, and I’m expecting to come back with more ideas than I can handle.


Want a Go?

If you’re interested, head over to my shivanata page, find out about the starter kit or book a session over Skype or in Brighton.

If you’re not, then take the lesson that even two years on, you can learn from the very basics of a skill. And that sometimes clarity just takes a few moments of doing something different.

– Rose –

 

As phoenix rises from ashes into flame, the alchemist turns lead to gold.
Are you feeling heavy, dull and in need of a smith? Let me help you to shine up and set you alight with your passion again.
The Alchemy Forge will be opening next week, so keep an eye out!

The Burning Question: What do you want… that you already have?

Since the Phoenix Mind is all about fuelling the fire of our lives, I’m taking part in Danielle La Porte’s Burning Questions series. Don’t forget to take a look at my previous responses and leave your own thoughts. This week’s question and answer can be found here.

What do I want… that I already have?

My list of desires begins with “time with others”. Other items include “a steady income”, “a sense of routine”, “space and time to breathe”, “more mindful moments” and even “the courage to be with my emotions more”.

However, I’m a big fan of the gratitude list: of finding new things each day to be grateful for. “I’m grateful I have friends and housemates to talk to.” kind of fulfils my first wish.

And that’s what today’s burning question is all about. Where am I already getting those things? How can I increase those?

I can knock on housemates doors and ask if they want to cook their meals with me, chatting while I cook mine.

I’m actually happy to trade that steady income for time working on my degree, and I am keeping my mind open to new opportunities.

I’m in control of my sense of routine – I could begin each day with a simple practise which sets up the day. I could make a habit of going through my diary each morning and working out where I’ll do each extra item from my to-do list around my other commitments.

I can always take a moment to be mindful; to meditate or just to chant.

And I’m working on the last one.

What things are on your list?

And where can you find them already in your life?

I bet you’ll find they’re there already – you just need to increase how often you meet them.

What items are on your list and where are they met?

Thanks for stopping by to hear my views; please feel free to share yours in return. Either leave me a comment (feel free to ask me more questions about my answers!) or head over to the prompt post to reply.

– Rose –

Un-Conditioning Fear

I’m in the back of the car.

Two years ago, I’d have been fuming with rage.

Four years ago, I’d have been silently crying.

~

Today, I’m sat with my water bottle, happy music on my mp3 player and I’ve texted my partner so I can feel supported. Knowing he knows is enough, but the reply to hang in there and to keep breathing is even better.

I’m keeping an eye on how I feel; mentally watching for both physical sensations and my emotional fluxes. I can sense a tightness in my chest and an uncomfortablity in my throat.

I can feel tears threaten, but I don’t want to cry here – it’s not safe –.

The yelling flows over me and my music like a river over the rocks and I close my eyes. Then, the car lurches and they open themselves in fear.


The Memories

I grew up in this place: The loud, angry sounds; the sense of danger around the next bend; the fear in my throat and the tears brimming behind my eyes; desperate not to fall.

There’s almost a safety in this danger; where I can revert back to old systems and I know just how hard the hit I’m expecting will be.

When I’m here, in the car with his raised voice, it’s hard not to fall back into that instinct I learnt to exist in; as a conditioned child.


Current Situations
 

But that was a decade ago. Today, though in the back of a car with him again, I’m a Masters student, a Psychology graduate, a dreamer, writer, published poet and a redefiner. I am an alchemist; a grown woman in her early twenties.

I choose to tell my body that it can release these tears tonight. I will make time for us to cry; body and mind. We can mourn today’s pain and the suffering it reminds us of when we are safely locked in our bedroom.

I’m redefining what tears are; from the weakness I learned they were to the natural and safe release of energy I now know them to be.

Sometimes though, we’re all triggered by aspects that take us back, and it’s hard to keep yourself present. Each day I have to remind myself of this present; this safety and my new role as a redefiner. I remember that I have the power to make my life joyous and freeing.

It’s uncomfortable at times, and it takes work. But I’ve been to that place of safety, and for me, it’s worth battling every single day for.

After the past couple of years of fighting, I don’t even need to fight for it every day; it’s a part of me now; and my natural reflexes. I often redefine the moment without noticing it.


Keeping Afloat in the Stream of Conditioning

  1. Stay present.

This is the easiest step for me to do, as long as I remember that I need to do it. Counting’s a good option, or labelling:

How many leaves are on that tree? Count them in pairs? Or bricks in that wall. How many grooves are on that plastic, and letters in that road-sign? Count the seconds on your watch in increments of five. Do anything to engage your brain in what’s going on here and now; that’s not emotional.

  1. Find the differences.

Once we’re in the “now”, it’s helpful to find the “untriggers” by noticing the differences between this situation and that one. ‘I’m now ___ years old, I have ___ (house, partner, degree, job, son, nephew, etc.) and I am ___ (confident/strong/aware/insightful/competent). It’s April now, it was July then; I’m wearing blue, I was wearing pink…’ and so on. Havi of The Fluent Self does a “how is now not then” which contains alignment and separation much like this.

  1. Why were you triggered?

It’s helpful to find out which bits of this situation are like the conditioned one; thus why you’ve been triggered. Seek the similarities and feel the understanding soothe the confusion. Which part of this makes your response legitimate? Know that there is a reason you’re reverting to that place. And that’s okay.

  1. Release the Emotion

Write, sing, cry, scream into a pillow, punch a cushion, go for a run, walk out… Do something to let this emotion out. Then you can put systems in place to support yourself for the next time. If this isn’t possible right now, make sure you remind yourself that you will make a time and a space for it – and then ensure that you do.

  1. Create a System

Each system will depend on your and your triggers, but having a specific system to go alongside the staying present and bring you a piece of safety is so useful when dealing with triggers; particularly fear triggers.

I always have a water bottle with me, so taking a few slow sips of water are my current sadness / fear system in action. That gets me breathing a little slower / more regular too. Find what works for you; and then use it. This is bets if you can always have it with you; for whenever something unexpectedly arises, from humming a song to mentally reciting a poem or visualising a pretty ocean.

All of this can be hard to do in the moment itself, but if you take time to work through each trigger in the calm space; it’ll become habit and you’ll be able to reach for the skill just when you need it.

– Rose –

Controlling Your Fire: Part 2 – Choosing Your Actions

This is the second post about my experience as a facilitator of an anger management course for 16-25 year olds, and the tips about dealing with anger.

Today, we’re going to deal with the preparation you can do to avoid acting out of anger, and the aftermath.

In case you missed last week’s post, “Dealing with Feeling”, here are three key points to know:

-          Anger is a neutral emotion, though your action may have a positive or negative moral value.

-          Anger is a useful emotion – giving you extra power when you need to fight or flee in dangerous situations (or in this day and age, letting you know that something is wrong and in protecting your values / world-view).

-          Anger cannot be removed entirely (and there is no need to try). However, we can manage it. This means you minimise how often you act upon it and to what degree you act.

Okay, now that’s understood, let’s begin with preparatory actions for managing your anger.


Preparation – Maintaining a Base Calm

A trigger of anger is usually more than just about that one incident. Things have been building up over time and suddenly, you reach the top of the volcano and can’t help but erupt.

It’s a good practise to have methods of releasing small pieces of annoyance so that they don’t build up.


Common methods include:

-          meditation

-          reiki

-          dance

-          singing

-          ranting (in a journal/blog/twitter/to a friend).

  • it’s important not to let them catch you up into the drama though; talking to an empty chair is just as good

-          punching pillows

-          yoga

-          regular walks / runs

-          massage

-          play a game

Some of these techniques will also work during the moment of anger; but if you go for a walk once a week, take ten minutes a day to meditate and get a massage/reiki session once a month, your levels of stress will generally stay lower, which means your reactions to things that may cause anger will also be lower.

Question #4: What can I do for myself to release excess energy and chill out?


Perspective

Will this matter in 24 hours time? Or a year?

How long is your journey? Is it worth being in a bad mood for the rest of the day over? Will getting into an argument help?

Is this even about the situation which has triggered your emotion?

Some of the physical predispositions to anger include feeling ill, being hot, being tired or feeling hungry / thirsty. If our basic needs aren’t met, we’re more likely to react with anger.

Take a step back and see what this is really about, and if it really matters.

Question #5: Will this matter in 48 hours time? Is it worth causing a stir over?

 

Prevent A Future Situation

One of my most useful new practises since beginning the course last May was to speak to someone as soon as something bothered me the second time. This stopped it going from a one-night irritation to a full blown rage over the course of many nights, but also didn’t make it seem like I was complaining every time anything happened. Once I could let go. Twice and it became a pattern.

 

My new routine became:

-          say what the side effect is, then say you think X might be contributing and could we come to an arrangement that means the other person can still be free but I don’t get the side effect:

“Hey housemate, how are you?
“Good, you?”
“Really tired. I couldn’t get to sleep last night.. worry, work, and at times your music was a little loud.”
“Oh..” (or sorry, or silence)
“I wondered if you’d be up for maybe setting a level or a time to finish music by, or if there’s something you could suggest that I do to alleviate this that wouldn’t mean disrupting your chilling out time?”

I’m taking responsibility that it’s MY issue with her music and that I’m willing to change how I act if I can. I’m also opening dialogue so she can realise that her music does affect me.

I’ve not called her a name, raised my voice or made any comment about her behaviour being “bad”. It’s also good to state about this making you FEEL something. Annoyed, tired, restless, anxious… people connect with emotions better than an abstract action.

Question #6: How can I approach this issue once it becomes a pattern?


Aftermath

- If you lost your temper, I’d suggest apologising. And explaining which action annoyed you, why (you could share your view with them?) and how it made you feel.

- If you got angry by yourself (and didn’t do anything to show them), then I’d suggest trying the above tip (6) after you’ve calmed down.

Mini-note: I often find preparing this conversation brings up the anger again. Tell yourself you’re going to go and sort the issue out without the use of anger. The anger has told you that this bothers you; its message has got through. Now let’s be nice and calm and express our feelings to another human being who also experiences emotions.

 

You can’t control the feeling of anger, but you can control how much you let it build, how you act on it and how you choose to view it.

~

Tips:

- Keep yourself calm on a daily basis

- Take up calm-promoting exercises

- Avoid gossiping

- Keep alert to the triggers as you get annoyed

- When you’re predisposed, take extra breaths

- Put it in perspective

- Are your basic needs met?

~

 

Questions For Thought

How do you create your space of calm?

What are your thoughts on anger management?

Do you have an effective method of calming down, or approaching others?

Did you have a question I’ve not answered?
It would be great if you’d post any of these thoughts in the comments section for everyone to share and learn from.

– Rose –